How to Advocate for Yourself at the Doctors

Navigating the healthcare system can be intimidating, especially when it feels like your concerns aren’t being heard. But you deserve to be taken seriously, and advocating for yourself is crucial. Here’s how to be your own health advocate and ensure you get the care you need.



Be Prepared:

Before your appointment, jot down all your symptoms, questions, and concerns. The more detailed you are, the better.

Example: “I’ve been experiencing headaches three times a week for the past month, mostly in the evenings. They’re usually a throbbing pain and sometimes make me feel nauseous.”

 

Don’t Be Afraid to Speak Up:

If something doesn’t feel right or you don’t understand what the doctor is saying, ask for clarification. You have a right to know what’s going on with your body.

Example: “Can you explain what you mean by that? I want to make sure I understand.”

 

Ask Questions:

Don’t hesitate to ask questions about your diagnosis, treatment options, and any medications prescribed.

Example: “What are the side effects of this medication? Are there any alternative treatments we can consider?”

 

Bring a Support Person:

If you’re nervous or feel overwhelmed, bring a friend or family member to support you and help remember details. Having your bestie by your side can give you that extra confidence boost and help you feel more comfortable asking questions.

 

Follow Up:

If you’re not feeling better or if something changes, don’t hesitate to follow up. Persistence is key.

Example: “I’ve been taking the medication for a week, but I’m not seeing any improvement. What should we do next?”


Advocating for yourself at the doctor’s office is all about being prepared, asking questions, and trusting your instincts. Remember, you know your body best, and you deserve to be heard and treated with respect.

Stay strong and take care,
Pretty Please xo

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